Relationship Counselling:

It can be really painful to realize that your relationship hasn’t turned out the way you thought it would.

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Even with the best of intentions to resolve their problems, couples don’t always have the necessary skills to work things through in a satisfactory way. 

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By using this simple checklist, you can determine whether or not you have reached total gridlock in any of those infuriatingly repetitive problems you may have in your relationship:
 

• The conflict leaves you feeling rejected by your partner.

• No matter how much you talk about it, you feel thwarted. Despite your best attempts, you are making absolutely no headway in the problem area.

• You become so impossibly entrenched in your positions that neither you nor your partner plan to budge.

• Anytime the subject comes up, you invariably feel frustrated and hurt.

• Your conversations about the problem are unpleasant as can be, entirely devoid of humor, amusement, or expressions of affection.

• Your inability to budge increases with the passage of time, leading the two of you to vilify each other when this conflict arises.

• In an infuriating catch-22, the reverse also manages to occur: as you vilify each other, your inability to budge and polarization in your views increases, and your chances of reaching a compromise plummet.

• Upon traversing this delightful territory, the two of you end up in the land of total emotional disengagement.

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If you answered YES to 3 or more of these items, relationship counselling can help you get your marriage back on track.